Friday, March 31, 2006
Gurbani As antidote to suffering
Gurbani – As antidote to suffering


The spiraling trend of mental illnesses and an increasing suicidal tendency in today’s stressful world is a cause of deep concern. Each one of us feels that something should be done to prevent such incidents. Let us seek guidance from Guru Granth Sahib and see if something can be done.
Psycho-Analysis: Analysis of the entire mind and mental health is necessary to understand the vulnerability of a depressed person. Mental health is the capability of any individual to cope with normal stresses and strains of life. When any person is not able to do that, he may slip into despair. Despair is the most difficult and dangerous situation, which can lead a person into believing that ending life is the only answer to his problems. Answer to our problems may be found if we can some how prevent despair in the first place. How and why does anybody go into despair? Studying the state of mind in a little detail is required to understand it better.
Suffering: Whenever we face adversity (dukh) we go through a definite set of mental turmoil. It takes the same sequence of mental events with almost everybody. At the first instance we try to reject the truth and feel that the news is not meant for us but has been wrongly delivered to us. It is nature’s way to prepare our mind for the final blow. As soon as the news is confirmed we get into a fit of anger. It’s seen that in hard times people blame Fate or even God for being unkind to them. As the anger subsides we start bargaining with God to reverse the damage done. It’s very common to see people going to Gurudwara for forty days or performing Akhand Path for fulfillment of their requests, whether just or unjust. We slip from sadness into despair when the almighty Lord turns down all such requests. Every thing looks gloomy and we loose all hope of revival.
The longer we stay in the state of despair, the more we suffer. Even few moments of despair can cause awful mental agony. This torment can carry on for days, weeks, and months or may be for years. One becomes a prisoner of anguish, and is unable to live a normal life. We are finally freed from this torture when acceptance of events takes place. Once the truth is accepted, we are at peace and life comes back to its normal routine. A psychiatrist only helps to move a patient from the stage of despair to the stage of acceptance through prescription or counseling.
How can despair be prevented? The ultimate truth is that it cannot be prevented.
Guru Nanak openly declares it that the whole world is suffering.

bwlI rovY nwih Bqwru ] (954)
The young woman weeps because she has no husband.
nwnk duKIAw sBu sMswru ] (954)
O Nanak, the whole world is suffering.

Baba Farid also presents this opinion in his shloks

PrIdw mY jwinAw duKu muJ kU duKu sbwieAY jig ] (1382)
Fareed, I thought that I was in trouble; the whole world is in trouble!
aUcy ciV kY dyiKAw qW Gir Gir eyhw Aig ]81] (Slok, SyK PrId jI -1382 )

When I climbed the hill and looked around, I saw this fire in each and every home. 81


Baba Farid even goes a bit further with the sentiment and shows utter disillusionment with world.


PrIdw ij idih nwlw kipAw jy glu kpih cuK ] (1381)
Fareed, if on that day when my umbilical cord was cut, my throat had been cut instead,
pvin n ieqI mwmly shW n ieqI duK ]76] (Slok, SyK PrId jI -1381 )
I would not have fallen into so many troubles, or undergone so many hardships. 76

But Guru Arjan Dev Ji is very well aware of the fact that any of his disciples may be mislead by such depressing thoughts and He guides us very well then and there itself.

mhlw 5 ] (1382-4)
Fifth Mehl:

PrIdw BUim rMgwvlI mMiJ ivsUlw bwg ] (1382)
Fareed, in the midst of this beautiful earth, there is a garden of thorns.

jo jn pIir invwijAw iqMn@w AMc n lwg ]82] (Slok, SyK PrId jI-1382)
Those humble beings who are blessed by their spiritual teacher, do not suffer even a scratch.
82


mhlw 5 ] (1382-4)
Fifth Mehl:

PrIdw aumr suhwvVI sMig suvMnVI dyh ] (1382)
Fareed, life is blessed and beautiful, along with the beautiful body.

ivrly kyeI pweIAin ijMn@w ipAwry nyh ]83] (1382-6, slok, syK PrId jI)
Only a rare few are found, who love their Beloved Lord. 83

We are repeatedly told to accept the will of God (bhana) by our Guru. If in the first place we accept the events we will not stay in depression for long. Accepting God’s will is the only thing that brings peace of mind. Saying it all is easy but practicing is difficult. This can only be achieved if we love God. If we pray to him he will take care of it all. Guru Amar Das Ji clears any doubts if any in our minds as he says that God Himself inspires us to surrender to His Will

mwrU mhlw 3 ] (1063-17)
Maaroo, Third Mehl:
jo quDu krxw so kir pwieAw ]
Whatever You do, is done.
Bwxy ivic ko ivrlw AwieAw ]
How rare are those who walk in harmony with the Lord's Will.
Bwxw mMny so suKu pwey Bwxy ivic suKu pwiedw ]1]
One who surrenders to the Lord's Will finds peace; he finds peace in the Lord's Will. 1
gurmuiK qyrw Bwxw BwvY ]
Your Will is pleasing to the Gurmukh.
shjy hI suKu scu kmwvY ]
Practicing Truth, he intuitively finds peace.
Bwxy no locY bhuqyrI Awpxw Bwxw Awip mnwiedw ]2]
Many long to walk in harmony with the Lord's Will; He Himself inspires us to surrender to HisWill. 2
qyrw Bwxw mMny su imlY quDu Awey ]
One who surrenders to Your Will, meets with You, Lord.


Poise and harmony: To reach a stage where one walks in harmony with the lord’s will one has to pray every day. We can not achieve it by our virtues because we don’t have any (nirgun) If Lord is kind enough He can make us do whatever he likes.Thus it is most important to pray every day so that he keeps us near him. We must understsnd this well that loving God is not through our own efforts but only by his blessings (nadir). To achieve this it is most important to quit our own intellectual thoughts and only listen to Guru.

koeI jnu hir isau dyvY joir ] (701-16, jYqsrI, mÚ 5)
If only someone would unite me with the Lord!
crn ghau bkau suB rsnw dIjih pRwn Akoir ]1] rhwau ] (701-16, jYqsrI, mÚ 5)
I hold tight to His feet, and utter sweet words with my tongue; I make my breath of life an
offering to Him. 1Pause

This someone is none other than GURU. Guru and only guru can unite us with LORD. Only constant interaction with Guru can keep us near God. It is just not sufficient to go to gurudwara regularly. One must read, recite, listen to and contemplate on gurubani.

hm AnwQ nwQ hir srxI ApunI ik®pw kryNh ] (702-4)
I am a helpless orphan - I seek Your Sanctuary, O My Lord and Master; please bless me with Your mercy.
crx kml nwnku AwrwDY iqsu ibnu Awn n kyNh ]2]6]10]
Nanak worships and adores the Lord's lotus feet; without Him, there is no other at all.
When we see none other than lord we don’t have to fear anything in the world.


AwieE srix dIn duK BMjn icqvau qum@rI Eir ] (701-18)
I have come to Your Sanctuary, O Destroyer of the suffering of the innocent; I keep my consciousness focused on You.

ABY pdu dwnu ismrnu suAwmI ko pRB nwnk bMDn Coir ]2]5]9]
Bless me with the gifts of the state of fearlessness, and meditative remembrance, Lord and Master; O Nanak, God is the Breaker of bonds. 259

Emancipation: When this state of fearlessness is achieved there is no danger of anxiety, frustration or depression, the root cause of mental illness. When failures do come our way Guru helps us sail through crisis by his beautiful words and healing touch.

To conclude we must bring our children closer to Guru by making them read Guru Granth Sahib. Keep them away from useless activities. Instead of wasting time on other things they should at least one page from every day from Sri Guru Granth Sahib. If not possible, then at least the daily hukumnama from Darbar Sahib should be read to understand the complete meaning. If we put this much effort Guru will take care of the rest Himself. After all it’s His Mercy we have to seek.

PS: This article was published in The Sikh Review in December 2005 issue.
 
posted by upinder kaur at 3/31/2006 06:58:00 PM | Permalink | 1 comments
Saturday, March 25, 2006
Small Garden in Harimandar Sahib Complex


This is the only small green patch in The Harimandar Sahib complex.I think it is the place where they are planning to build a museum. I am not sure. It is located between the Langar Hall and the Joda Ghar.
 
posted by upinder kaur at 3/25/2006 11:43:00 AM | Permalink | 4 comments
Thursday, March 23, 2006
Darsan pi-aasee dinas raat

drsn ipAwsI idnsu rwiq icqvau Anidnu nIq ]
darsan pi-aasee dinas raat chitva-o an-din neet.
I am thirsty for the Blessed Vision of the Lord's Darshan, day and night; I yearn for
Him constantly, night and day.


Koil@ kpt guir mylIAw nwnk hir sMig mIq ]1]
kholiH kapat gur maylee-aa naanak har sang meet. 1
Opening the door, O Nanak, the Guru has led me to meet with the Lord, my Friend.
Sangat waiting for Darshans. It may take a couple of hours sometimes before you can get Darshans. On Sundays and important days ( gupurab, sangrand) it may take longer. Best is to be there before 4 am
 
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Monday, March 20, 2006
Too Daree-aa-o daanaa beenaa

qU drIAwau dwnw bInw mY mCulI kYsy AMqu lhw ]
too daree-aa-o daanaa beenaa mai machhulee kaisay ant lahaa.
You are the River, All-knowing and All-seeing. I am just a fish-how can I find Your limit?
jh jh dyKw qh qh qU hY quJ qy inksI PUit mrw ]1]
jah jah daykhaa tah tah too hai tujh tay niksee foot maraa. 1
Wherever I look, You are there. Outside of You, I would burst and die.1
n jwxw myau n jwxw jwlI ]
na jaanaa may-o na jaanaa jaalee.
I do not know of the fisherman, and I do not know of the net.
jw duKu lwgY qw quJY smwlI ]1] rhwau ]
jaa dukh laagai taa tujhai samaalee. 1 rahaa-o.
But when the pain comes, then I call upon You. 1Pause
qU BrpUir jwinAw mY dUir ]
too bharpoor jaani-aa mai door.
You are present everywhere. I had thought that You were far away.
jo kCu krI su qyrY hdUir ]
jo kachh karee so tayrai hadoor.
Whatever I do, I do in Your Presence.
qU dyKih hau mukir pwau ]
too daykheh ha-o mukar paa-o.
You see all my actions, and yet I deny them.
qyrY kMim n qyrY nwie ]2]
tayrai kamm na tayrai naa-ay. 2
I have not worked for You, or Your Name. 2
jyqw dyih qyqw hau Kwau ]
jaytaa deh taytaa ha-o khaa-o.
Whatever You give me, that is what I eat.
ibAw dru nwhI kY dir jwau ]
bi-aa dar naahee kai dar jaa-o.
There is no other door-unto which door should I go?
nwnku eyk khY Ardwis ]
naanak ayk kahai ardaas.
Nanak offers this one prayer:
jIau ipMfu sBu qyrY pwis ]3]
jee-o pind sabh tayrai paas. 3
this body and soul are totally Yours. 3
Awpy nyVY dUir Awpy hI Awpy mMiJ imAwnuo ]
aapay nayrhai door aapay hee aapay manjh mi-aano.
He Himself is near, and He Himself is far away; He Himself is in-between.
Awpy vyKY suxy Awpy hI kudriq kry jhwnuo ]
aapay vaykhai sunay aapay hee kudrat karay jahaano.
He Himself beholds, and He Himself listens. By His Creative Power, He created the world.
jo iqsu BwvY nwnkw hukmu soeI prvwnuo ]4]31]
jo tis bhaavai naankaa hukam so-ee parvaano. 431
Whatever pleases Him, O Nanak-that Command is acceptable. 431

As I sat near the Sarovar at Darbar Sahib I got a feeling that these fish were moving their fins at the beat of Tabla. Whole atmosphere seemed to recite Waheguru! Waheguru with the tabla beat.
 
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Saturday, March 18, 2006
Langar at Darbar Sahib
Sewa in Langar at Harimandir Sahib is really Admirable.Though there is a machine for making prashadas(chappati/roti) , sewa by hands can not be replaced by anything. Here are a few photographs of prashadas being made by the machine.
Hot Prashadas just baked out of the machine
Hot Prashadas on the conveyor belt

Finally Prashadas being collected for distribution



 
posted by upinder kaur at 3/18/2006 12:04:00 PM | Permalink | 5 comments

I visited Shri Darbar Sahib Amritsar last week. It was such a Bliss!
I shall share some photographs and a few experiences with you all.
 
posted by upinder kaur at 3/18/2006 11:29:00 AM | Permalink | 1 comments
Wednesday, March 08, 2006
Sangat in Pangat

Inside Gurdwara Bangla Sahib


Sangat taking Langar at Gurudwara Bangla Sahib
 
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Thursday, March 02, 2006
Gurdwara Bangla Sahib

Chandelier inside the Gurdwara hall

Sangat at the Sarovar


Gurdwara Bangla Sahib, New Delhi


Sangat Taking Jal at Gurudwara.

 
posted by upinder kaur at 3/02/2006 06:58:00 PM | Permalink | 1 comments